her boyfriend. I totally understand how she feels though I haven't experienced that particular problem (sorry, can't share the whole story) and she told me that her trust with her boyfriend is already gone. Now, her lost of trust is accompanied with lost of love. It's really heart breaking. I know that nobody's perfect but I just can't believe that there are people (without thinking other people's feelings) who truly doesn't care if they break someone's heart by betraying trust. Or maybe I'm just too blinded or lying to myself that there are people who exists to do such thing intentionally or unintentionally. Or maybe I just don't entertain such thoughts to myself. Trust is very important in any relationship and if you lost it, it will be difficult for you to regain it or worse everything will end in just a blink of an eye.Just be strong my friend, I know you can through it. God will always guide you in every decision you will make.
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When I was little, I was very idealistic, something like my Prince Charming will come and save me from a horrible monster and we'll live happily ever after. At that time, I only look on the guy's physical appearance like he got a very beautiful eyes, he's handsome, he's tall and has white complexion or maybe he's good in any sports. Not until I met my husband. He really changed my outlook when it comes to relationship and love. He taught me how to give unconditional love. The first thing that I liked about him is being responsible. That's the time where it sank my mind that the qualities of a person are most important when entering a relationship. And lucky for me to have such a handsome and good hearted husband in one package (haha!). His good qualities are the reason why I trusted him so much.
"When someone hurts you, always count the good things he had done for you. Maybe he hurt you many times but he gives you happiness, love and importance at all times."
I trust my husband so much that I believe in anything he say to me, when he say "no, i didn't", it's fine with me as long as it's really "NO, YOU DIDN'T." I always tell him that he already know what is right from wrong and it's his choice. My perspective in trust is, if he chose to break the rules and lie to me then his conscience will eat him. God sees everything. You can lie to me but never with God. I remain trust worthy and faithful with you, it is an opportunity for you to take good care of it, cherish it and show me that you are worthy of my trust too.
If you lost trust of you're loved ones, make an effort to regain it, prove to them that you are worthy of their trust again. As long as you're sincere and you persevere, you'll win and deserve it.
To those who lost their trust, just open your mind, be optimistic and look into their hearts. Remember that acceptance and forgiveness is the key.
You always have my trust. I love you Honey and I always will..
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